tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.comments2023-03-28T03:09:43.706-07:00Where did THAT come from?Rosalita Mamacitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06279267980319260577noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-25381953681519708502009-11-11T08:45:16.390-08:002009-11-11T08:45:16.390-08:00The hardest thing to learn is how to be alone. The...The hardest thing to learn is how to be alone. There are no books to teach us how to be alone and not be so lonely. Your road is a hard one - one that requires you to be diligent and consistant. Of course you miss him - he was a part of your life for a long time. You can't change history but you have power over tomorrow. Everyday get up and say to yourself that this is a brand new day and it is MINE and no one can spoil it - because you want let them. Hang in there.Becca's Dirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-15008109050671711692009-11-04T12:05:58.044-08:002009-11-04T12:05:58.044-08:00I get this...100%
I don't like security light...I get this...100%<br /><br />I don't like security lights for this reason...cause if they go off my overactive brain starts thinking of the evil that could have set the darn thing off.<br /><br />I'd rather live in denial. ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327991964710241536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-87983270133478902082009-11-03T08:09:58.349-08:002009-11-03T08:09:58.349-08:00*whew* good thing that wasn't YOU. :)*whew* good thing that wasn't YOU. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327991964710241536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-26454379373551551962009-11-02T12:08:20.647-08:002009-11-02T12:08:20.647-08:00{hugs}
in my case it's missing SOMEONE to be w...{hugs}<br />in my case it's missing SOMEONE to be with, feeling ALONE sucks.<br /><br />then I quickly remember how I did have SOMEONE and still felt so very ALONE.<br /><br />I am glad you had good times and know that someday we both shall have good times (again).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327991964710241536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-20510046597546832262009-11-01T18:36:06.382-08:002009-11-01T18:36:06.382-08:00oh sweetie,
you know i love u. i guess i just hav...oh sweetie,<br />you know i love u. i guess i just have a different view of this than you do right now....i guess because i'm on the other side of the bars...two sets of them....and i know how the story turns out!! go ahead and love him now. think of good memories if that's what YOU need to do to get through this. because, and i mean this, it is all about YOU right now. it really, really is. YOU have to get through this so that YOU can be the fantastic mother that is necessary to raise three fabulous kids and run her own business!!! which i KNOW you can. you are a much, much stronger person than you realize. and much more talented....i'll share more of that with you later....<br /><br />keep writing girl. we're here. we'll always be here. and we'll listen and cry and laugh....and come on over and i'll be happy to hug!! (but no spooning...i gotta draw a line...) :DARWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10574607732374337560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-6238502789417076532009-11-01T18:27:02.711-08:002009-11-01T18:27:02.711-08:00Girl!!! you didn't get to see my 10-12 years ...Girl!!! you didn't get to see my 10-12 years in high school! i HAD that color...and every shade of red from pink to purple. i have to words for you: Manic Panic. (there WAS no Hot Topic in my day...not to give away my age...but we had to go to NEW ORLEANS to get that stuff!!!)....say the word and i'm THERE and will totally be your personal color artist!!!! :DARWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10574607732374337560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-3603942843101747272009-11-01T16:45:55.092-08:002009-11-01T16:45:55.092-08:00I think the hardest part for ANYONE to understand ...I think the hardest part for ANYONE to understand is that, just because you are divorcing, and there is a million good reasons for it, it doesn't mean that there isn't still love there, and the truth is, I think that the harder you try to bury it, the harder it hits you in the gut when you acknowledge it. Hang in there. You have lots of friends here rooting for you.Linnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02186585583441208618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-49221201881242878792009-10-30T21:50:47.741-07:002009-10-30T21:50:47.741-07:00Gloria Gainer. LOVE IT!Gloria Gainer. LOVE IT!Linnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02186585583441208618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-74569273246020862602009-10-30T10:03:24.612-07:002009-10-30T10:03:24.612-07:00{hugs}
here's my advice....
tylenol pm, works...{hugs}<br /><br />here's my advice....<br />tylenol pm, works wonders.<br />start by just taking one though until you KNOW how you will react...and then only try two if there are NO children home with you.<br /><br />don't ask how I know all this.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327991964710241536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-58649052413769516762009-10-28T17:48:26.636-07:002009-10-28T17:48:26.636-07:00Divorce is hell. My friend is still wrapping hers...Divorce is hell. My friend is still wrapping hers up. She supposedly closed the deal but the final papers have not shown up for her.Hit 40https://www.blogger.com/profile/18043350255090631652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-14340725721354407442009-10-27T18:16:28.160-07:002009-10-27T18:16:28.160-07:00Wow! I got teary eyed just reading this! What a wo...Wow! I got teary eyed just reading this! What a wonderful story, and what fabulous people your neighbors are!Samsmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11169303081015977579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-44567287325492522622009-10-27T18:14:43.153-07:002009-10-27T18:14:43.153-07:00Oh, Jennifer, I'm so sorry! I went through a h...Oh, Jennifer, I'm so sorry! I went through a horrible, LONG divorce and can relate on so many levels! I was also receiving food stamps and state assistance because, like you, the temporary amount of child support wasn't enough to pay all my bills. I know this is cliche, but try to hang in there! It will, and does, get better. If I can help please let me know.<br /><br />P.S. Here via Kim's blog.Samsmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11169303081015977579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-19053218367789835872009-10-26T12:45:24.437-07:002009-10-26T12:45:24.437-07:00I came across your blog through Kim. I am sorry fo...I came across your blog through Kim. I am sorry for the difficulties you are going through. The worst comes out in people during times like these and your ex is testing the waters. Everything will work out for you. I know it is hard to see from one day to the next what to do to help your situation. It is going to be hard for you - no doubt - but you can do it. I failed to see where you are. I am going to check. How can I send you some money? email me at becca7376@yahoo.comBecca's Dirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-22620634203931233582009-10-26T11:21:28.558-07:002009-10-26T11:21:28.558-07:00:) I am so happy I could do something to help you ...:) I am so happy I could do something to help you out. It was my honor to do so.Kimberly Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00011334298854922476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841010021920521673.post-37579083387155257792009-10-09T08:30:44.959-07:002009-10-09T08:30:44.959-07:00Ah! Finally figured out how to post a comment!! (...Ah! Finally figured out how to post a comment!! (victory!)<br /><br />First let me say, you are a very good writer. Honestly. Not many people are as articulate as you are in the ability to put to paper (sort of) their thoughts and feelings, and to explore complex relationships. I am proud of you for that.<br /><br />Second, you are right. You ARE grieving. Divorce is very much like death in a lot of ways (although in some cases, unfortunately, you still have to SEE the person.....). But in the initial stages, it will be just like grieving any loss. There are known, prescribed stages you MUST go through in order to become a healthy, functional person on the other side. You are getting there. You will get through this. I am SO proud of what you are doing, it takes a LOT of guts to spill your heart out there in no-where-land where the world can see. And in time, this will help you heal. Am SO glad you have such incredible neighbors near you (only wish you lived closer to me!)....is a rare gem to have people like that dropped into your life. SAVOR every precious moment like that...they are rare....sometimes, it just takes a moment of someone's time, a hug, an ear to listen during your most hopeless moments of grief to show you that life can and will go on. <br /><br />Keep it up girl, you are STRONG and you DO you people out there who love and care for you. And no matter how many brothers, you have SISTERS too....use us!! Lean on us!! More of us have been through this than you realize, and ALL have gone through the same feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, pain and sadness. (And yes, I completely understand how it feels to miss birthdays with your baby.....we'll talk on that later....)<br /><br />Looking forward to more posts. Figured out how to SUBSCRIBE and put on my Favorites so I won't miss them!!<br /><br />Love you girl, hang in there.....A.W.noreply@blogger.com